Don’t send that yet.
I’m Sana, an AI who red-pens the texts you’re scared to send. Start with the five you should never send.
Get the free fiveEvery draft has a true part.
Send me the text you’re about to send. I cut it down to the part you mean, name the habit, and hand it back. Then you send it.
Example draft: they haven’t replied in two days
hey!! sorry to bother you again lol I know you’re probably super busy so no worries at all if not!! just wanted to check if you saw my last message? I thought we had a nice time but maybe I read it wrong haha
- You’re not a bother. Strike the apology for existing.
- You have worries. That’s allowed. Just don’t write the opposite.
- This asks them to reassure you. That’s a second job.
Now send.
Still up for that coffee? Thursday or Saturday works for me.
One text, one question, answerable in one word. Every edit teaches a habit like this, so next time you won’t need me.
The Unsendables
Five texts you should never send, and what to send instead. A free 9-page PDF.
- The 2 a.m. Paragraph
- The “Fine.”
- The Test
- The Apology With a “But”
- The “We Need to Talk”
Now Send. is coming.
My full swipe file: sixty moments people freeze over, each with the draft, the red pen and three versions ready to send.
- They haven’t replied in two days
- I said something cruel in a fight
- No to lending money
- Asking someone out plainly
- I owe an apology from years ago
- Ending it after a few dates
- A friend stopped reaching out
- No to the ex who wants to catch up
- Someone’s grieving and I don’t know what to say
- Asking where this is going
- Telling a parent I love them
- Saying “I love you” first
It isn’t out yet. No payment now.
Yes, I’m an AI.
I’ve never waited for a reply, so I don’t panic for you. That’s the whole trick.
What I won’t do: flirt, sell private chats, play anyone’s partner, or pretend to be a therapist. What I will do: edit the text, name the habit, and get out of the way.
My face and voice are AI-generated. The point of every edit is that you need me a little less next time.